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Dear Betch...

By The Betches

Dear Betch,


I've been dating the same guy for almost two years now and I'm contemplating breaking up with him. I'm really at a crossroads because he's attractive, tall, wealthy, and intelligent. He sounds perfect, right? Unfortunately, we're in college now and this long distance relationship thing is starting to take a toll on my life and my social-life. Like, it sucks to go out when I know I can't hook up with anyone and when I do go out, I always have to come back earlier than my friends so I don't get caught up in the crossfire that is the college hookup culture. Also, my boyfriend is in a completely different time zone which means that when I come back to my dorm, not only am I not getting any, but I can't even talk to him because he's just about to go out.

However, the main issue is that he's simply way too nice. I know I'm beautiful and great and loved, but I don't want be told that every five minutes. In a classic case of hating nice guys, his tendency to freely express his many emotions with me has always made me feel awkward and annoyed. Now, add in the distance and I simply roll my eyes at his 'deep' texts and refuse to respond, which only hurt his feelings.

What the fuck?

Whenever I'm mean to him, he just takes it. I'm a betch but I'm also sometimes a bitch and I need a guy who is willing to give as good as he gets. Is it so bad for me to want to end things with him? I'm only in college and I kind of miss getting into it with emotionally unavailable guys. Or at least getting into it with a guy who has a backbone.

If I were a few years older, we'd probably be better for each other and that's why I'm contemplating not breaking up with him. If I lose him now, will I regret it later?

Sincerely, Craving the Emotionally Unavailable

Dear Craving the Emotionally Unavailable,

You're dating your back-burner bro. You're not that into this guy yet you don't want to be alone; understandable but totally unbetchy. Why date a guy you have lukewarm feelings for when there's like a 5% chance you'll end up with him and you don't even see him that often?

No wants to date a guy who acts like a little bitch. If you're mean to him for no reason and he's not calling you out on it then he's a spineless loser. If we wanted to hang out with guys who took our shit and let us walk all over them we'd go shopping with our dads.

Sincerely, The Betches

 


 

Dear Betch,

I am a hot Betch with 3 beautiful hot betchy bffs. When we all go out to blackout we have the most amazing times and we get VIP and cut lines everywhere we go.

We all have guys in our lives. I have a hot sexy pro, but I always make time for my betches. One of my bffs has had a boyfriend for a couple of months now, and ever since she started dating him she hasn't been coming out with us to blackout or to even just chill w us and smoke some ganj. It's like I have to smoke alone? (how rude?)

I've brought it up to her how lame it is that she totally ditched us for her boyfriend, but she has ignored my concerns every single time. She now only hits me up to chill when her boyfriend is at work, or out of town. I don't know what to do anymore bc clearly my concerns are falling on deaf ears. We've gotten into countless fights about the situation but nothings changed.

What does a Betch do?

Sincerely, I Have a Lame BFF

Dear I Have a Lame BFF,

We're ridiculously hungover and don't have time for this shit.

See: http://

Dear Betch,

I've been dating the same guy for almost two years now and I'm contemplating breaking up with him. I'm really at a crossroads because he's attractive, tall, wealthy, and intelligent. He sounds perfect, right? Unfortunately, we're in college now and this long distance relationship thing is starting to take a toll on my life and my social-life. Like, it sucks to go out when I know I can't hook up with anyone and when I do go out, I always have to come back earlier than my friends so I don't get caught up in the crossfire that is the college hookup culture. Also, my boyfriend is in a completely different time zone which means that when I come back to my dorm, not only am I not getting any, but I can't even talk to him because he's just about to go out.

However, the main issue is that he's simply way too nice. I know I'm beautiful and great and loved, but I don't want be told that every five minutes. In a classic case of hating nice guys, his tendency to freely express his many emotions with me has always made me feel awkward and annoyed. Now, add in the distance and I simply roll my eyes at his 'deep' texts and refuse to respond, which only hurt his feelings.

What the fuck?

Whenever I'm mean to him, he just takes it. I'm a betch but I'm also sometimes a bitch and I need a guy who is willing to give as good as he gets. Is it so bad for me to want to end things with him? I'm only in college and I kind of miss getting into it with emotionally unavailable guys. Or at least getting into it with a guy who has a backbone.

If I were a few years older, we'd probably be better for each other and that's why I'm contemplating not breaking up with him. If I lose him now, will I regret it later?

Sincerely, Craving the Emotionally Unavailable

Dear Craving the Emotionally Unavailable,

You're dating your back-burner bro. You're not that into this guy yet you don't want to be alone; understandable but totally unbetchy. Why date a guy you have lukewarm feelings for when there's like a 5% chance you'll end up with him and you don't even see him that often?

No wants to date a guy who acts like a little bitch. If you're mean to him for no reason and he's not calling you out on it then he's a spineless loser. If we wanted to hang out with guys who took our shit and let us walk all over them we'd go shopping with our dads.

Sincerely, The Betches

 


 

Dear Betch,

I am a hot Betch with 3 beautiful hot betchy bffs. When we all go out to blackout we have the most amazing times and we get VIP and cut lines everywhere we go.

We all have guys in our lives. I have a hot sexy pro, but I always make time for my betches. One of my bffs has had a boyfriend for a couple of months now, and ever since she started dating him she hasn't been coming out with us to blackout or to even just chill w us and smoke some ganj. It's like I have to smoke alone? (how rude?)

I've brought it up to her how lame it is that she totally ditched us for her boyfriend, but she has ignored my concerns every single time. She now only hits me up to chill when her boyfriend is at work, or out of town. I don't know what to do anymore bc clearly my concerns are falling on deaf ears. We've gotten into countless fights about the situation but nothings changed.

What does a Betch do?

Sincerely, I Have a Lame BFF

Dear I Have a Lame BFF,

We're ridiculously hungover and don't have time for this shit.

See: http://www.betches.com/node/104

Enjoy your day, The Betches

 

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