April 24, 2014
Thanks to Beyonce and that African lady on Flawless, we are now all familiar with the definition of feminism (something about waking up like this I think?) Now that Bey has taken it upon herself to show us that feminism has less to do with burning your bra and man-hating and more to do with loving yourself and getting the respect you deserve, it's time for betches to embrace the term and not puss out when somebody asks them point blank if they're a feminist. (Note- the term "puss out" probs not super pro-feminist but, whatever. We all take on what we can handle.)
So that being said, here are some betchy feminist buzzwords you can use the next time some bro tries to take you down a notch just because you won't touch his nasty ass d.
A long long time ago a bunch of cave bros got together and decided that they couldn't have women leaving their caves and doing things because they might start doing those things better than men can do them. This idea persisted throughout history as bros convinced themselves that if women were allowed to have jobs and drive cars that men would never get hard again or some other bullshit, and thus the patriarchy was born. The patriarchy is all around us and is constantly trying to hold betches down. Luckily all the betchy ladies in politics and a bunch of just regular citizen betches are not having that shit anymore and are fighting on the daily for a betch's right to get an abobo and to get paid the same amount as bros for the work they don't do. TG.
So, there are a lot of super long articles about the psychological impacts of gaslighting and how shitty it is, but for the sake of not boring the shit out of you, here's a crash course. Remember when your so-called bf blew you off for like a full week and then told everyone you were a "psycho bitch" when you finally went off on him via text? That's gaslighting. Remember that dude you met on Tinder who said his ex was "crazy" but then after a little investigation you found out he just cheated on her a bunch? Again, that's gaslighting. Remember that time you were in the car with your hot stepbrother and some chick in a beret laughed at your understanding of Hamlet even though you know you remember Mel Gibson accurately? You guessed it---gaslighting.
Gaslighting is a term that comes from some old ass movie that means when a bro (or anyone---betches can gaslight other betches) tries to deflect their own shittiness by trying to make you feel insecure and stupid, usually by telling everyone you're crazy. This is the ultimate in shady bro behavior, but unlike other shady things bros do, it's not attractive. Gaslighting is bullshit and is used by people who want to take away your agency and make you feel small so next time somebody tries to do it to you tell them to fuck off and be like "you can go gaslight your back now byeeeeeeee."
Every betch observes the code of not fucking bros (sometimes) differently. For some betches, "sometimes" literally means "some of the time" and for others it means "basically every weekend now that I'm on Tinder." Whatever. Do you. A betch is a gift to society and if she chooses to bestow that gift upon an entire basketball team, that's her prerogative. No judgement. Slut shaming is when people fail to mind their own fucking business and act like what you do or don't put into your front pocket has anything to do with them. Luckily, betches have been long times champions of the anti-slut shaming movement by embracing the joys of dressing like a slut and always keeping in mind that we've "got to stop calling each other sluts and whores because it just makes it okay for guys to call you sluts and whores." Thanks Tina.
The Bechdel Test is a test for movies that asks one simple question: does the movie portray at least two named female characters who talk about something other than a man. Sounds easy, but a legit large percentage of movies do not pass this very simple test and it's like come on, if I could pass Organic Chem you can pass the Bechdel test. It's not fucking hard. Luckily, the Bechdel test might as well be renamed the Betchdel test because all our fav movies like Clueless, Mean Girls, Bring it On, and Spring Breakers all pass the shit out of it proving once and for all that feminism and betchism go hand in hand.