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What His Choice Of First Date Activity Says About The Kind Of Fuckboy He Is

It's 2017, and we live in a relentless era of fuckboys. Thanks to a society that lets men feel like they rule the world (Google: The Patriarchy), guys generally suck. Dating is a minefield of trying to avoid the worst of them, and this has all been put on steroids by the prevalence of social media. Now, there are entire websites dedicated to the worst in fuckboy pre-date behavior (@byefelipe), but what about when an IRL meet up is already scheduled? It's important to keep your guard up from the first moment, and analyzing his first date choice is a crucial part of this. Like, don't assume everything is all good just because he didn't send you an unsolicited photo of his erect penis. That is not the standard of good behavior we want to promote. It's not even the bare minimum. It's like always shitting in a toilet, as opposed to a hole you dig in the ground—just expected as a productive member of society. Here's how you can tell what kind of fuckboy you have on your hands based off that very first date. 


Fancy Cocktails: The Wall Street Fuckboy

He's got a great job, so you might want to keep him around for a while. Just beware that along with the job, he probably also two other girlfriends who won't be afraid to get territorial. Conversely, he'll def get jealous and think you're "flirting with the waiter" wherever you go because he figures you're always on the prowl for a hookup, just like he is. Get him to buy you some nice shit, but don't get too involved, because he knows how to play the game just as well as you and def has one of those rich guy inferiority complexes you read about in Gossip Girl.

Tailgate/Sporting Event: The Frat Fuckboy

No matter his age, he will show up wearing a frocket tee or a polo, and you will hate every minute of it. Quit acting like a chill girl and demand better for yourself. Sorry fellas, but if we have to drink out of a fucking red solo cup on a first date, that's going to be the last date. Ever. Dating is cancelled. And unless we're sitting courtside at an NBA game, we don't want to watch sports with you.

Bowling Alley: The Fuckboy Who Lives At Home

If your Uber pulls up at a fucking bowling alley, run like the last Lululemon store in the world is having a clearance sale. He absolutely still lives with his parents, maybe even by choice, which makes it even weirder. As a semi-functioning adult with your life semi-together, you have absolutely no time for date ideas that are just repurposed from the birthday parties you attended in second grade. (Also includes: mini golf, ceramics painting, etc.) Also, he's probably sober, and not for a good reason like, "suffering from alcoholism," but for a stupid reason like "I wouldn't want to disappoint my mom." 

Live Music Club: The Hipster Fuckboy

He might not seem intimidating at first, but the hipster fuckboy will constantly judge you for not knowing about rando "jam bands" and not being a vegan. Sorry dudes, but we'd rather eat meat and dairy than hang around to "hear music" until 3am. You guys will barely be able to talk at all because of all the noise pollution around you, and that's probably a good thing because this fuckboy has very little to offer outside a good IPA recommendation. 

Casual Hangout: The Fuckbuddy Fuckboy

If you are going to his house for the "first date," then call Ashton Kutcher because you've been punk'd. This is not a date, it's a glorified booty call that he felt too awkward to be honest about. Even if he seems cool, he's obviously not interested in anything serious. That's not necessarily a problem, but don't lie to yourself. Being delusional went out of style in like, 2013.

Dive Bar: The Has-Been Fuckboy

This man may be 24-30 years old, but mentally he's still stuck in college. He could clearly afford to take you someplace nice (or at least someplace without sports memorabilia on the walls), but instead he chose this. He probably still drinks shitty beer because it makes him feel young. You know what your future will look like, and this is not it.

The Movies: The Antisocial Fuckboy

We like going to the movies as much as the next person, but why pay $11 to not talk to someone for two hours when you could just stay in bed and do a face mask? You deserve a man who can hold a decent conversation, so seeing a movie before the third date is a major red flag. 

Coffee: The Cheap Fuckboy

If a guy suggests coffee as a first date, just cancel immediately. Is this dude Mr. Krabs? The difference between a cup of coffee and a beer is like, $4. This guy thinks he's being casual by setting up a coffee date, when it's obvious he just doesn't want to "invest" in you so early on by buying you a cocktail like a goddamn adult. If you go out with this fuckboy and don't put out or agree to a second date, he'll probably send you a formal invoice for the vodka soda he bought you. Sure, it will be fun to roast him in your group chat, but it's going to come at a price. Literally. Not to mention, anyone who drinks coffee after like, 5pm is a psycho. You don't have to date the poor; you can just donate to Unicef or something.

Help Me I'm Poor

Nice Restaurant: The Too-Good-To-Be-True Fuckboy

You know what they say: if something seems too good to be true, it usually is. But you can at least let it buy you dinner first before you find out? If a man offers to take you to a restaurant with 3 or more dollar signs on Yelp, make sure you show up with a pointed list of questions designed to show his flaws. Whether it's chronic bad breath or he's got bodies hidden in his freezer, you need to get to the bottom of these things.

Sherlock Homeboy

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