Sometimes, people have mixed feelings about bringing vibrators into the bedroom. They’re fine with the idea of solo play, but something about using a vibrator during sex makes them uncomfortable. And I can sit here and tell you it’s okay and you’re not missing out on much, BUT I’D BE LYING. I’m here to tell you to grow the fuck up. You have been missing out this entire time because anytime I’ve had sex and brought a vibrator into the picture, it’s just gotten so. Much. Better. But it’s not too late. If you’re looking to take your partnered sex to the next level, it’s time to get a vibrator and bring it to the bedroom.

There are so many different types of sex toys out there. And while you can definitely try your hand at all of them, remember that baby steps are important. So before you move to clamps and whips and cock rings (oh my!), you might want to test the waters with a vibrator first.

Whether you’re using the vibrator on yourself or your partner is taking over, that extra help can guarantee an orgasm and make your sex the sexiest it’s ever been.

Here are some of the best sex positions for vibrator play.

The Best Sex Positions For Vibrator Play:

Collapsed Doggy Style

You might assume that you need your legs spread wide and your genitals facing out to make good use of a vibrator during sex but think again. In this position, you’d lie on your stomach while your partner enters from behind. For this, you could place the vibrator under you so that you’re on top of it and then just grind against it as you use it.

Erotic Poser

Have your partner sit on a chair or couch but scoot their butt a little further down so that they almost look like they’re horizontal. Then, sit on top of them facing away from them, but while their legs are in front of them, make sure you’re sitting so that your legs are spread out on both sides of their legs. You want to look like you’re showing off (hence the name). Then, your partner can use their free hands to go up and down your whole body with a vibrator.

Spooning

You know how to spoon. But did you know it’s a great time to use a vibrator? Because you’re probably already doing some sort of hand stimulation, just put a vibrator in that hand.

Grasshopper

This is a simple transition from spooning. Just lift whatever leg is on top and throw it over your partner’s body. It gives them a lot more space to use a toy on you.

Secret Entrance

Lay down on a bed or couch so that your shoulders touch the surface, but then your hips and torso are tilted to one side. Then, your partner can enter from behind you. They’ll need a hand to prop themselves up, but the other they can use to explore your body with a vibrator.

Side Saddle

Have your partner lie down on a bed or couch, and then, standing at their side so that you’re facing out, just plop yourself down and on top of them so it looks like you’re riding a side saddle. This gives your partner’s hands the freedom to use a vibrator not only on your genitals but on your nipples as well.

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Vibrators For Beginners

If you’re unsure where to start, here are some of my go-to favorites: