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Topics: Relationships, Sex & Co.
Louisa Ballhaus
When my boyfriend found out I was writing an article about guys’ go-to sex positions, he displayed an emotional range that I usually reserve for getting my hair cut or finding out a TV show I watch is cancelled — you know, the really traumatic stuff. After vowing for 5 days that he would never lay eyes on it, he wound up glued to my latest draft while I repeatedly tackled him trying to reclaim my laptop. Because I have the core strength of an elderly Corgi, this was minimally effective and I had to hear a whole wounded speech of the “not all men” persuasion. So, for his benefit I’ve included the following disclaimer.
Disclaimer: This is exclusively for the purpose of not intended to make any guys out there self-conscious: you do me you. We’ve all just read enough articles about what guys think of our outfits, makeup choices, and morning-after behavior — it’s only fair that we offer up our thoughts about your go-to sex positions in return.
Below find a list of the top sex positions guys do and what it says about their go-to moves, in my opinion.
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This is heavily dependent on how the sex itself plays out. If he’s jackhammering for two minutes and then it’s over, this is just a guy who hasn’t had sex in too long, or who’s never had sex with the same girl more than twice, and exclusively knows how to effectively get himself off. Next. If it’s good though, and he’s not grabbing your hips and grunting like Khal Drogo (RIP), I’m willing to reserve judgment. Doggy style is awesome, and you can do a lot with it (bonus points for being creative with his hands or a vibrator).
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My boyfriend’s insightful addition here: I think that guys like doggy style because it feels really good. (Thanks, hon!)
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Ah, the vanilla ice cream of sexual positions. I like to play a fun game when someone uses the phrase “best sex of my life” to describe missionary, and the game is that I leave immediately while deleting their number from my phone (preferably leaving them with the check for my meal in the process). I’m definitely saying not saying that liking missionary makes you a bad person, but it does make me think you’ve never heard of any other positions and/or seen a movie that isn’t PG-13. A first hookup is about bringing your A-Game. Sorry, it’s harsh, it’s just how I feel! If you’re going to do it, at least go in and add some angle options with a pillow.
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Couple of thoughts here. First of all, if you’re having sex standing up, you’re almost certainly in a public place, which means you’re wasted he operates quickly and is good at improvising. If you’re in the comfort of someone’s home and his first move is to throw you up against a wall, you should either lock this down immediately or run for your life. He’s clearly experienced, knows how to take charge, and has excellent core strength. All of which is fantastic but also terrifying AF, so maybe missionary isn’t that bad, after all…